Paul Frediani, an advocate of long-distance open water swimming and a trainer for the past 25 years who, before that, became a highly paid model after winning a Golden Gloves title in California, was happy to hear during a conversation at his home in Springs the other day that his visitor, while pushing 74, remained physically active.
As it neared 8:30 p.m. on a recent Sunday night, Mary and I, as is our wont these days, talked of the time that remains to us, and she wondered, in that connection, what places I might really like to see and what things I might really want to do.
“What do I really want to do now? Or in the future?” I said.
“Both,” she said, “but let’s begin with now.”