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For Peter F. Rucano Sr.

For Peter F. Rucano Sr.

By
Star Staff

A graveside service for Peter Frances Rucano Sr. of Springs will be held Thursday at Calverton National Cemetery at 11 a.m. Mr. Rucano died at Southampton Hospital on Aug. 1 at the age of 91.

His family plans to gather at Yardley and Pino Funeral Home on Pantigo Road in East Hampton at 9 a.m. for a procession to the cemetery.

An obituary will appear in a future issue.

 

For Trudy Lester

For Trudy Lester

By
Star Staff

Funeral services for Trudy L. Lester of East Hampton will be held at 4 p.m. on Saturday at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, 675 Scuttlehole Road in Water Mill.

Ms. Lester, who died on Friday at Southampton Hospital, was 61. An obituary will appear in a future issue.

For Deborah Miller

For Deborah Miller

Aug. 21, 1952 - Dec. 20, 2016
By
Star Staff

A memorial gathering for Deborah A. Miller, an 11th-generation Bonacker who died in San Francisco on Dec. 20, 2016, of pneumonia, will take place on Aug. 21 at 11 a.m. off Landing Lane at Accabonac Harbor in Springs. She had requested that a memorial be held that day, her birthday, and a reception will be held during the solar eclipse at the family house at 517 Accabonac Road, Springs.

She would have been 65.

Ms. Miller was brought up in Springs and graduated from East Hampton High School in 1970. Her mother, Lucia A. Miller, a sister, Lucia E. Miller of Massachusetts, and a brother, Donald D. Miller of Florida, survive.

Geraldine B. Taylor, 78

Geraldine B. Taylor, 78

Nov. 5, 1938 - July 29, 2017
By
Star Staff

Geraldine B. Taylor of East Hampton died unexpectedly on July 29 in Ireland, where she had been vacationing, accompanied by two of her children and a son-in-law. She had gone to a hospital to be treated for an infection, and died there.

Born in the Bronx on Nov. 5, 1938, Mrs. Taylor was one of three children of Joseph and Ellen Bolger, who came to this country from Ireland. She graduated from St. Raymond School in the Bronx and went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in education from St. John’s University.

In 1959 she married Robert C. Taylor. They lived in Atlantic Highlands, N.J., for 14 years, and later in Florida, before moving to East Hampton, her husband’s hometown, about 20 years ago. Their five children already knew the town well, having spent their summers here over the years. Mr. Taylor died in 2001.

Mrs. Taylor, who worked seasonally on the South Fork for the Ford car family, was “the consummate Mom and Grandma, always taking care of others first,” her children said. She was “often in the kitchen creating wonderful meals and providing a lifetime of fond memories for hundreds of family and friends hosted over the years.”

She was a voracious reader and proud of her Irish heritage, they said.

She is survived by three sons, Robert Taylor of Glassboro, N.J., Roger Taylor of Davidsonville, Md., and Pierce Taylor of Pensacola, Fla., and two daughters, Maura Taylor Porricolo and Susan Taylor, both of East Hampton. She also leaves a brother, Joseph Bolger of Ireland, a sister, Maura Costantino of Connecticut, 10 grandchildren, and many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

The family received visitors last Thursday at the Yardley and Pino Funeral Home in East Hampton. A funeral Mass was said on Friday at Most Holy Trinity Catholic Church.

Phyllis Adams Memorial

Phyllis Adams Memorial

A memorial service will be held at the Amagansett Presbyterian Church Friday at 10 a.m. for Phyllis M. Adams, who was born in that hamlet on Aug. 28, 1922. Mrs. Adams died on June 8 in Augusta, Ga., where she had lived in recent years. She was 94.

For Phyllis Adams

For Phyllis Adams

By
Star Staff

A memorial service will be held at the Amagansett Presbyterian Church tomorrow at 10 a.m. for Phyllis Adams, a native of that hamlet who was born there on Aug. 28, 1922. Mrs. Adams died on June 8 in Augusta, Ga., where she had lived in her final years. She was 94.

Meredith D. Arnoux

Meredith D. Arnoux

Aug. 19, 1947 - July 08, 2017
By
Star Staff

Meredith Arnoux of Wainscott died on July 8 at the Kanas Center for Hospice Care in Quiogue. A former guidance counselor at the Westhampton Beach Middle School, she was 69 and had had cancer for two and a half years.

Ms. Arnoux was born in New York City on Aug. 19, 1947, one of two children of Harry Remington and the former Mary Owen. A brother, Jerry Remington of Florida, survives. She grew up in Sayville and graduated from Seton Hall High School in Patchogue, going on to Marymount College in Tarrytown, N.Y., and then  earning a master’s degree at C.W. Post College of Long Island University in Brookville.

In 1970 She married William Arnoux, who survives. They had three children, who all survive: Jessica Arnoux of Holtsville, Jackie Corallo of East Northport, and Jimmy Arnoux of Wakefield, R.I.

Ms. Arnoux was a longtime parishioner at Queen of the Most Holy Rosary Catholic Church in Bridgehampton. Her family said she enjoyed dancing to reggae music and swimming, both in the ocean and pools. She and her husband made yearly trips to St. Martin in the Caribbean, where, they said, she spent two-thirds of her time at the beach in the water.

In addition to her husband and children, five grandchildren survive.

The family received visitors on July 12 at the Yardley and Pino Funeral Home in East Hampton. A funeral Mass was said on July 13 at Queen of the Most Holy Rosary Catholic Church. The family has suggested memorial donations in Ms. Arnoux’s name to Fighting Chance, P.O. Box 358, Sag Harbor 11963.

J. Nelson Foran

J. Nelson Foran

Aug. 19, 1931 - July 21, 2017
By
Star Staff

Jacob Nelson Foran “was a man of many passions,” wrote Richard Swift, his partner of 35 years. “His love and knowledge of the arts, especially opera, classical music, and ballet, were all a constant source of joy and pleasure for him throughout his life” and he “gladly shared that knowledge with anybody who cared to learn.”

Known as Nelson, Mr. Foran died at home in East Hampton on Friday with Mr. Swift by his side. He was 85 and had been diagnosed with multiple myeloma in January. 

Born in Richmond Hill, Queens, on Aug. 19, 1931, to Nelson Foran and the former Nellie Daffer, he entered the Navy after high school. When he returned home, he moved to New York City and started a successful career in the architectural furniture industry.

A weekend visitor to the South Fork starting in the 1960s, Mr. Foran became a full-time resident almost 35 years ago, living first in Sag Harbor and then in East Hampton. On the South Fork, he began a new career in advertising sales, eventually retiring at the age of 70.

“He always loved the beauty and uniqueness of the different villages and hamlets that comprise this place he called home,” Mr. Swift wrote.

“He was a wonderful cook and host, loved books, museums, and traveling, especially to his beloved Italy, France, and Puerto Vallarta, Mexico,” his partner said.

He was also “a great storyteller, and all his stories had a beginning, middle, and end that people would listen to with rapt attention and delight. He was a true gentleman in every sense of the word with a courtly manner, superb wit, and irresistible charm. Beloved by many, a dear friend said of him, ‘his presence was golden, he had an aura about him that was contagious.’ ” Mr. Foran, “left the world a more joyful place for his having visited,” Mr. Swift said.

In addition to Mr. Swift, he is survived by two sisters, Carol Apkarian of Prescott, Ariz., and Kate Leder of Newport Beach, Calif., an aunt who lives in Patchogue, three cousins, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Memorial contributions can be sent to East End Hospice, P.O. Box 1048, Westhampton Beach 11978.

Jean Edmond Lanier, Member of L’Arche

Jean Edmond Lanier, Member of L’Arche

Feb. 2, 1946 - July 19, 2017
By
Star Staff

Jean Edmond Lanier of Wainscott, who was instrumental in founding L’Arche Long Island, a Riverhead branch of an international organization that creates communities for people with intellectual disabilities and those who care for them, died on July 19 in New York City, surrounded by his family. He was 71 and had been ill for only a short time.

Mr. Lanier was deeply involved with L’Arche from the time he met its founder. “It changed his life,” his wife, Judith Lanier, said. The organization was begun in France by Jean Vanier, a Catholic philosopher and theologian, and it now has established at least 100 community households around the world as well as workplaces and activity centers.

  Mr. Lanier’s family said he was a modest man and, although he had a successful career in business, what mattered most to him, besides his family, was the L’Arche credo: It is “the responsibility of human beings to lift one another up in mutual relationships of love.” He believed in celebrating the unique value and dignity of every person, his family said.

  Jean Edmond Lanier was born in Paris on Feb. 2, 1946, one of four children of the former France Rist and Edmond Lanier. He was brought up in Paris and graduated with a degree in economics from L’Ecole Centrale Paris, going on to receive a master’s degree in operations research at Cornell University.

In 1967, while traveling to the States, he met Judith Webb of North Carolina, who was returning home from Paris after studying French there. They met on the France, an ocean liner named by his father, who was the president of the French line and a director of Air France. They married in June 1970 and went on to divide their time between Paris and Wainscott, bringing up their children primarily in Paris.

In addition to his wife, three children survive: Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier of Bethesda Md., Nellie-France Harasimowicz of Rye, N.Y., and Patrick Lanier of Chevy Chase, Md. Ten grandchildren also survive, as do two brothers, Henri Lanier and Francois Lanier, both of Paris. A sister, Isabelle Essig of Versailles, France, died in 2016.

A requiem Mass was celebrated at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church in East Hampton on Monday. The family has suggested memorial donations in Mr. Lanier’s name to L’Arche Long Island, P.O. Box 354, Riverhead 11901-8052. There will also be a service in France, in Trosly-Breuil, an hour north of Paris, at which Jean Vanier will give the eulogy.

Patricia A. Arceri

Patricia A. Arceri

By
Star Staff

The Star has received word of the death of Patricia A. Arceri of Amagansett, who was 85, on July 14. A memorial service is planned for Sept. 16.

A full obituary will appear in a future issue.