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Joseph Francis DeDeyn     

Thu, 04/30/2020 - 10:56

Joseph Francis DeDeyn, who lived for many years in group homes in East Hampton, died on April 19 of complications from the Covid-19 virus. He was 68.     

Mr. DeDeyn, who was born on Aug. 23, 1951, had Down syndrome and dementia. He was living at the Hamptons Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing in Southampton at the time of his death.     

“Joey had many friends and was well-known in the community, especially at Kmart, where he would buy his toys, balls, and magazines,” wrote Carla Gagliotti-Gonzalez, one of his caregivers. “He loved McDonald’s and ice cream, attention and being with people. Joey had a special place in his heart for dogs and cats. He gave the best hugs and his smile was contagious.”     

His brother, Bob DeDeyn, and his caregivers, Debbie Clarke, Katalina Rodriguez, Justin Frazier, and Ms. Gagliotti-Gonzalez of East Hampton, Andrew Walsh of Montauk, and Paula Knoebel of Southampton, survive him.     

“Joseph’s life was a testament to the power of love to change people’s hearts for the better,” said Ms. Gagliotti-Gonzalez.     

A celebration of his life will be held at a later date at the graveside of his parents, Mary and Omar DeDeyn.

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