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Guestwords

Guestwords: Removing Your Unconscious

A tricky procedure, but one that will undoubtedly take a weight off your shoulders.

Aug 22, 2024
Guestwords: The Great Blackout of ’03

It’s hard to forget the surprising togetherness and making-do of New Yorkers plunged into darkness in the worst power outage in American history.

Aug 15, 2024
Guestwords: Pardon Me, Have We Met?

I am a single, cisgender female, American of African descent, of a certain age, with no children or a partner. And I matter.

Aug 8, 2024
Guestwords: Author! Author! Reader! Reader!

In 2013 I was obsessed with being an Authors Night author in support of the East Hampton Library. Here’s an inside-the-tent look at the Hamptons’ ultimate book party and benefit.

Aug 1, 2024
Guestwords: Valuable Vulnerabilities

Now that I am an octogenarian, my sense of risk increases at every turn. At the same time, I have gained an understanding of vulnerability as a character trait that allows me to be more open to what the world may offer.

Jul 25, 2024
Guestwords: Into Local Sailing History

It’s a rare thing to be part of an all-female crew on a sailboat, and yet that’s where I found myself in the middle of Noyac Bay.

Jul 18, 2024
Guestwords: A Life of Horses

Down the road I found a cream-colored, brown-speckled pony staked to a post in a farmer's yard. He was stunted, thick-barreled, short-necked. My stack of bills and quarters was enough, and a horsewoman was born.

Jul 11, 2024
Guestwords: Keepsake and Proof

The love of objects isn’t necessarily symptomatic of greed. Sometimes they become an extension of who we are, and a tangible sign of our connection to others.

Jul 3, 2024
Guestwords: Nothing Held Back

If you were witty, she was delighted. If you were needy, she was giving. If you were aspirational, she was your number-one cheerleader. We all should be more like Mary Graves.

Jun 27, 2024
Guestwords: A Churchillian Climate Plan

Conservatives will accept the reality of climate change once they realize that the most effective solution is one that depends on market forces rather than government regulation.

Jun 20, 2024
Guestwords: The Slog From Normandy

After D-Day, why did it take the Allies 11 months to make it from Normandy to Berlin, when normally it’s a day’s drive?

Jun 13, 2024
Guestwords: Big Red on the Hoof

A last-minute trip to Belmont Park one June day in 1973 led to our correspondent witnessing a once-in-a-lifetime triumph — Secretariat’s Triple Crown.

Jun 6, 2024
Guestwords: Bucket of Rocks List

The idea of downing a brisk brew now and again is growing on me. It seems to match my middle-aged self, my slower self, my more contented self.

May 30, 2024
Guestwords: Paradise Found and Lost

One sportfisherman’s perspective on how Montauk has changed.

May 23, 2024
Guestwords: Turning 90

It’s typical of people my age to look back with nostalgia and say it’s too bad everything has gone to hell. But I look forward.

May 16, 2024
Guestwords: The Mother You Get

I wanted someone who baked cookies. My mother painted pictures.

May 9, 2024
Guestwords: Life With Panic Disorder

Panic attacks tend to come unannounced, while panic disorder constitutes a recurrence of these attacks, along with the constant fear of having more of them. Here is how I dealt with it all.

May 2, 2024
Guestwords: Tips for Growing Old in N.Y.C.

New York, it’s a wonderful place to spend your golden years — if you mind these few dos and don’ts, that is.

Apr 25, 2024
Guestwords: A Benchmark Garden Speech

On the occasion of the wartime opening of the extended nature trail at David’s Lane, a 79-year-old conservationist reminded us why we need the greenery.

Apr 18, 2024
Guestwords: Leaving the Farmhouse

Memories of 1978 and a final, snowy departure for college upstate.

Apr 11, 2024
Guestwords: Did You Feel That?

Taiwan just got rocked, 30 years ago it was Northridge, California, and it could happen here. What’s it like to ride out the big one?

Apr 4, 2024
Guestwords: Our Own Backyards

As we are bombarded with information detailing catastrophic environmental degradation around the world, it often seems we live in a bubble here on the East End.

Mar 28, 2024
Guestwords: The Yalie on the Bus

On an Audubon expedition into the American Southwest with busload of college kids in the early 1990s, among them was a young John Avlon, now running for Congress.

Mar 21, 2024
Guestwords: American Apathy

This is not the time to bury our heads in the sand or in our electronic devices.

Mar 14, 2024
Guestwords: Tale of Two Inquisitions

What I learned playing the Grand Inquisitor in a high school play, while experiencing my own interrogations off the stage.

Mar 7, 2024
Guestwords: Too Much Art?

At an arty dinner party in Sag Harbor a woman announced to the table, “There’s just too much art!” If that day ever comes, we’re in trouble.

Feb 29, 2024
Guestwords: Snowy Skies

How can friends who’ve headed to Florida or the Bahamas possibly get through a winter without the visceral remembrances of snowy days?

Feb 22, 2024
Guestwords: What I Lost With Joe

A tale of two ad men.

Feb 15, 2024
Guestwords: Normalcy, Never Again

My generation has been living in America’s Second Reconstruction. With some improvements from the first in the 1870s, we still fight for inclusion, seek diversity, and hope for equity.

Feb 8, 2024
Guestwords: The Best Was Yet to Come

The Broadway and pop composer Cy Coleman died nearly 20 years ago. In time for the Grammys, a remembrance of the always fun times with him, from Elaine’s to the Hamptons.

Feb 1, 2024