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Guestwords: How Do You React to a War?

Lessons from the Dutch travails of World War II.

May 5, 2022
Guestwords: Nazi Avengers

Whenever I give a lecture and someone asks me why so many Jews went like sheep to the slaughter during the Holocaust, the question sets my teeth on edge.

Apr 28, 2022
Guestwords: Smarts Against Dumbs

In praise of cards and board games, pastimes with staying power.

Apr 21, 2022
Guestwords: On Ukraine, Use Less Oil

If we’re interested in reducing the strain on our interdependent world amid this devastating conflict, it’s worth considering a more mundane response: conservation of resources.

Apr 14, 2022
Guestwords: The Last Slap Story

Poor confused Will Smith.

Apr 7, 2022
Guestwords: Thank You, Frankie Avalon

A Frankie Avalon show at the Suffolk Theater in Riverhead raises questions: What happened to romance? Where have the good times gone?

Mar 31, 2022
Guestwords: Mad for Movies

The sight of the shuttered Southampton movie theater brings to mind “The Last Picture Show,” Peter Bogdanovich’s 1971 masterpiece, and further trips into a filmgoing past.

Mar 24, 2022
Guestwords: From the Jan. 6 Archive

The former president famously doesn’t like emails, so many of his feelings were recorded on the back side of his McDonald’s orders from Jan. 4 and Jan. 5.

Mar 17, 2022
Guestwords: Ukraine Is Not Holland 1940

Many aspects of Russia’s war on Ukraine are eerily similar to Hitler’s invasion of Holland in May 1940. But the differences matter.

Mar 10, 2022
Guestwords: Cabin Fevers

How divided is our country? Our medical community? We can’t even agree on what a fever is.

Mar 3, 2022
Guestwords: Increase Outdoor Learning

Mounting evidence suggests that nature enhances children’s development in important ways.

Feb 24, 2022
Guestwords: A Living National Treasure

Japan’s tradition of designating artists and performers as Living National Treasures could be adapted here, and my first nominee would be Alan Alda.

Feb 17, 2022
Guestwords: The Meaning of Love

I don’t mean to idealize our boy dog, but here is love . . .

Feb 10, 2022
Guestwords: Ultimate Rejection!

Do you know how many rejections we have received of this potential classic of world literature? It could be something like Fyodor Tolstoy’s “Crime and Peace” or Joseph Conrad’s “Fart of Harkness.”

Feb 3, 2022
Guestwords: Winter in Springs

On a winter drive with my husband one Sunday afternoon, we started to list all the people we’ve known from the neighborhood who are no longer here — their absence struck a powerful note.

Jan 27, 2022
Guestwords: What to Tell Your Architect

The surprising connection between home design and phobias.

Jan 20, 2022
Guestwords: A Foodie’s Foodie

Brent Newsom, in memoriam.

Jan 13, 2022
Guestwords: The Virtues of Monotasking

In the last few weeks of 2021, my body put a stop to overtasking and sent me to the corner to think about what I’d done.

Jan 6, 2022
Guestwords: At-Home Test Fails

I had just hit some second-rate jackpot and felt a combination of instant relief and long-haul anxiety. Yippee, we could take a test. Uh-oh, what if my wife and/or I tested positive?

Dec 30, 2021
Guestwords: Xmas Story

Just how did modern civilization make the transition from spirit, light entering the world, to matter — to the materialism that marks Christmas Day?

Dec 23, 2021
Guestwords: Buy/Don’t Buy My House

Bottom line? We want our house loved and enjoyed the way we loved and enjoyed it.

Dec 16, 2021
Guestwords: The Palmer Method

A public education debate has been raging between cursive and printing enthusiasts for several decades now.

Dec 9, 2021
Guestwords: Knee Jerks

Walking the dog was fine. Tennis was fine. Life was fine. Until Labor Day, when my knee blew up like a balloon. So what do you recommend, doc?

Dec 2, 2021
Guestwords: Giving Thanks Anew

On Nov. 25 and every day before and after, I will thank God, Destiny, Fate, Chance, and the prejudice of white descendants of European immigrants for my good fortune. But is that something I should celebrate?

Nov 24, 2021
Guestwords: Turkey Unmasked

Thanksgiving last year was just weird. Now I’m once again looking to escape P.T.S.D. (Post Turkey Stress Disorder).

Nov 18, 2021
Guestwords: At the Battle of the Bulge

So what did Joseph DiSunno do about having no oil in his truck as the Germans closed in?

Nov 11, 2021
Guestwords: Boating While Swamped

Over the course of 15 years running a registered charter fishing boat and taking people out to Montauk Point, I have issued five official mayday distress calls and sunk two boats — with customers on them.

Nov 4, 2021
Guestwords: Ghost Town, a Love Story

What is it about Sag Harbor that brings out the spirits?

Oct 28, 2021
Guestwords: Consider the Rake

Because I can physically see the work getting done as I rake, I view things with a beneficence I can’t summon in life’s more static moments.

Oct 21, 2021
Guestwords: Game 7, St. Louis, 1946

Recollections of a day in Missouri when everyone was a Cardinal.

Oct 14, 2021